We make choices based on our understanding of concepts. My Concepts posts deal with abstract and complex concepts and with the axioms, tenets, paradigms, principles and values enmeshed with, derived from and inherent to them.
The universe is not designed with you as its epicentre, so not everything that happens to you ‘happens for a reason’ that involves you. You are not here to uncover your hidden purpose, to discover the reason you were born based on clues strewn strategically along a path carefully laid out for you.
You are magnificent. You get to choose why you are alive. Choose and hone your paradigm and your values. Then the destination, if there even is one, will logically fall into place.
The first big difficult step is to forgive yourself for the mess of the day.
The next difficult step is to face everything that happened and to extract a few lessons from it.