The universe is not designed with you as its epicentre, so not everything that happens to you ‘happens for a reason’ that involves you. You are not here to uncover your hidden purpose, to discover the reason you were born based on clues strewn strategically along a path carefully laid out for you.
You are magnificent. You get to choose why you are alive. Choose and hone your paradigm and your values. Then the destination, if there even is one, will logically fall into place.